Saturday, April 18, 2009

Connecting the dots

Disclaimer: Heavy rambling below. Don’t tread if you have better work to do, and continue at your own risk only!
Sometimes, we fall… after all, accidents do happen. The fall though may be an accident or a deliberate sabotage by someone jealous of your grace, or even a harsh revenge, a means of showing contempt by someone who hates you, or a simple act of the disgraceful fate, that you fall in the wrong place, at the wrong time in the wrong position. Which ever the reason may be, the outcome remains independent of it, nevertheless, may vary in intensity, from a slight scratch to a broken limb bone or even severe skull injury and a few unlucky times, even death. The slight scratches vanish in time, replaced by new skin. There is absolutely no problem at all in case of death too! :P

Broken bones and skull fractures take a lot of time, energy and money, cause a lot of pain and stress not only to the injured, but also to the close ones, but they eventually do get mended, but done leave without leaving a scar, that keeps reminding you for the entire life, about the whole incident. The actual physical pain just vanishes away in some time. But the mental and psychological pain is that is the trace it leaves, that sometimes tends to be even more painful than the skull surgery itself!

As Steve Jobs had said in his Stanford speech( incase anyone hasn’t heard it before, I suggest you do.. or atleast read it, for its just really good. I listen to it pretty often. Not that its of much help, but it just makes me feel good and, well, it makes a lot of sense. That’s all.), the dots in life will connect one fine day, and they connect only by looking back and not forward. But the helplessness doesn’t really help, now does it? I have never been the one to believe in prophecies or predictions or horoscopes( which I usually call horror-scopes), and I still definitely don’t! But I guess I now understand why people do go to the seers or jyothishis who claim to foretell the future of even strangers. They hate being helpless and in the dark too. But hey, how can a stranger tell about your future, which even you, who have known yourself since you were born, cant tell? Atleast, that’s my main reason for not believing in them anyway.

In any case, the future will definitely unfold. May be not as one had planned, may be not as one had hoped and may be not as someone else had foreseen it for a payment, but it will fall right under our feet and we will walk through it, whether we like it or not, whether it hurts or not, whether it is pleasant or not. But what ever comes, it is not written on stone. The future is NOT WRITTEN ON STONE. Even Alice Cullen cant predict it right because it changes with each decision one makes, every choice one makes/ is made for him/her. It changes at every crossroad, every turn taken and every new move.

Hence, I guess, that is why it is impossible to join the dots looking forward in life, because they just aren’t there. If Mr. X takes a left to reach a palace and become a king, or goes straight to his wife and kids to live a happy peaceful middle-class life, or take a right to meet with an accident and loose his limbs forever(I wouldn’t say die coz I believe there are things worse than death in this world), and he is totally lost and really doesn’t know which to take, a psychic can tell only upto the point where he reaches the crossroad. It is his destiny that makes him choose a path, fate that leads him to whatever destination.

I guess at the end of a bad road, all a stressed person can do is ask “Why now?” or “Why this?” or “Why me?”. But I guess fate is just deaf and dumb! So it would be a much better use of time and energy, if instead of asking oneself/fate such idiotic unanswerable questions, one would just go back home and continue watching cute sweet romantic fantasy movies, dream one’s own happily ever after, yet live a real life without questions!

19 comments:

  1. Sometimes, its like you have a join-the-dots book with no dots and you just draw lines till you can position points yourself!
    :D
    Or get a good coloring book :D

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  2. hey there was no need for that disclaimer..it was a serious thought penned in an amazing way :) but i really want you to come out of ur lill gloomy cell :)

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  3. ya..somehow it makes sense.
    n read that speech,onnu mattum nala theiyudhu..life le uruptavan yaarume college mudichadhu illa :D

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  4. Hmmm..There is always a light at the end of the tunnel. Keep calm, Im sure there are better days.

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  5. Btw, I had written a post titled Horrorscopes last month and we share a few points there. check out the link and let me know your feedback :

    http://vimalsparadise.blogspot.com/2009/03/horrorscope.html

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  6. @ vivek: lol.. i guess i'll take the colouring book any time!! :)

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  7. @ verbivore: thnx! i dont sit in tat gloomy cell of mine all day.. sometimes its just maddening.. tats all.. the rest of d time, i have my really cool set of movies n series to watch other than thesis work.. :P

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  8. @ data: lol.. shud hav known tat b4 passing out.. right? if we had dropped out too, who knows? may b we wud been on the top of d world some day too!! i guess its too late now.. huh? :P

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  9. @ vimal: yeah.. i guess.. n yeah.. i now remember reading tat blog of urs.. :)

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  10. Come visit my blog and leave lots of comments!

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  11. Sorry am late reading this. Not been online all that much.

    I hope things are much better now. It is always good to write down all the supposed *rambling*. Makes you feel a whole lot better.

    What I'll say is - life always comes a circle. So, keep the faith.

    Peace. Be well.

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  12. nice one here. blogrolling you :) hoope its okay..

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  13. Ki hua? Forgot blogger? :P

    Tc. :)

    Peace.

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  14. @ preeti: sorry for d late rply.. sure! thnx!! :)

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  15. @ kartz: thnx buddy... n sorry for d late response.. i don cm pl too ofn either. don ask y.. not reason at all! :) but leaving d campus once n for all now. lotsa things like packing n downloading stuff from DC remaining. :P will surely resume blogging once things start happening in life again.. :D
    but i do read blogs of friends now n then.. just dont leave comments due to the unbearably slow net connection.

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  16. Hey, not a problem. I quite understand. :)

    Downloading stuff from DC? Deccan Chronicle? :P*

    Ok ok, carry on. :) I wish you good luck! See you around!

    Tc.

    Peace.

    ---
    U on orkut/fb/gt? Mind adding me to ur network?

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  17. @ kartz: i m thr in orkut.. but i hardly even sign in.. but oh well, i still do keep d a/c to maintain contacts.. n sure.. i'll add u d nxt tym i log in! definitely! :)

    n DC is a LAN sharing software buddy.. its much easier to download movies n songs n series n softwares frm thr than internet. since i was leaving d campus, was taking wid me as much as possible. :)

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  18. Heh heh heh, ok. I was never on the LAN. So, no wonder I dint comprehend the term. ;)

    And thanks for the add. :)

    Hope u *ahem* accumulated enuf warez/gamez/moviez/muzic. :P Careful, you'll be arrested for the possession of pirated stuff. :D

    Cheers. ;)

    Peace.

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  19. @ kartz: welcome dude!! n as far as accumulating stuff is concerned, i have one of the least ext hard disks- only a 250 GB. half of my frns hav a 500 or even 1TBs. well, n piracy issues in india?? seriously?!? not a chance!! :D

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