Monday, September 22, 2008

Tagged by Aparna

What do you do when..

- You see a man (or woman) making a pass (trying to woo / flirt / impress) on a woman (or man) you like?
if he does get impressed by that, then to hell with him! if he doesnt, then he has passed the test. so i guess to find out if he passes the test ornot, i wud stand aside n watch!

- Some one you like, is not attracted to you?
then it wud jus be a crush that i might have to add to the list n forget it later if he never gets attracted to me. i m simply not the kind to try to attract him by making false moves to impress him. if he doesnt like who i am, then there is no point in trying to make him like whom i am not, right?

- You are attracted to some one, but both of you are in two different cities?
personally i wudnt consider physical distance as a barrier, as long as both of us r in the same place romantically.

- You are reading a book, and your best friend wants to borrow it and can’t wait for you to finish reading, ‘coz he/she has been looking for it for all their life?
if i really looove tat book tat much, i wudnt take more than a day to complete it neways.. so i wud let him/her wait for jus a day more n then lend it. if i m not really too involved wid tat book, then i guess i wudnt mind lending it b4 i complete it.

- You help plan his / her career, and then, they go on to achieve it, leaving you behind, alone..
i wudnt feel sorry for helping him/her, after all life moves on for all of us, n mostly in different directions. so it wudnt be his/her fault to grasp the opportunity n use it well to go to heights. i wud only be sorry if he/she had refused to use the opportunity for my sake. then no point in my hardwork for his/her welfare right? but if he/she used me to climb up the heights n threw back a stone to keep me down or something of tat sort, then i might be sorry i helped him/her!!

- Insert (and add) a new question(s) / statement(s)..
i m not gonna add ne Qs... but i wud definitely like to add some statements... not my own, borrowed from some1 else, but i love them as i have realized them all too:

I have realized that …The lonelier you feel the lonelier the world makes you feel

I have realized that …Even if I deserve the reward, I need to beg in order to get it

I have realized that …Words hurt me more than the wounds that I had suffered in life

I have realized that …When you have nothing to lose, you show your true character

I have realized that …Closer I am to myself, closer I am to God…

I have realized that …Broader the smile, deeper maybe the wound inside…

I have realized that …No matter how many times I pray, I only get what I rightfully deserve

I have realized that …When I am ecstatic about something, there are never enough people to share it with…

I have realized that …A face is not as important as it is made to believe…

I have realized that …It’s not always a coward who gives up a fight, sometimes smart people too…

I have realized that …You can’t have happiness unless you are already happy…

I have realized that …If you make decisions with your heart, you are bound to regret them later in your life…

I have realized that …Kids are never at fault, they just mirror our faults…

I have realized that …One person’s misery is another person’s merriment…

I have realized that …Every relationship has an expiry date…..

I have realized that …I am better when I am silent….

I have realized that …Smiling all the time can really hurt…

I have realized that …Tears convey more than what words can ever say…

8 comments:

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  2. The statements at the end of the post made the whole differece. You shouldve made that as a separate post itself.

    The lonelier you feel the lonelier the world makes you feel - Very true; experienced this myself

    Broader the smile, deeper maybe the wound inside…hmmmmm

    When I am ecstatic about something, there are never enough people to share it with…i have written a similar statement when i did this tag- I started V-lokam when there was none to share!!!

    It’s not always a coward who gives up a fight, sometimes smart people too…so you watched JTYJN..hehehehe..

    I have realized that …Every relationship has an expiry date…perhaps, the only statement I would want to disagree

    Tears convey more than what words can ever say… Exactly, but Im often criticised for my tears. Boys shouldnt cry they say. well, im a human being, I cry when im deeply hurt and smile when Im happy and I never felt it is wrong !!!

    As I said, tag done 'touchingly' well.

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  3. Good honest answers and great realizations towards the end of the post.

    If you've realized so much so early in life you are definitely bound to go places.

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  4. Loved your responses. From first to last...

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    Hey, feel free to express your opinion there. No big deal; be it religion or philosophy. Let us know what you think. You never know; you might just say something no one there know. And everyone enjoys a good debate. :)
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    "Even if I deserve the reward, I need to beg in order to get it"

    "No matter how many times I pray, I only get what I rightfully deserve"

    Hmmm... Gita 2.47.
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    Peace, and blessed be.

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  5. Very nice!!! :-D

    So much philosophy, so early in life, sehet ke liye acchha nahi hain! :-D

    Good one... :-D

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  6. Broader the smile, deeper maybe the wound inside… :) true! n poetic!

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  7. @ vimmuuu: thnx. :)
    as i told u, they r not my creations... i jus loved them very much!

    @ varun: he he.. thnx:)

    @ kartz: thnx. u seemt o b a pro in gita!

    @ aparna: lol. i know... but i feel phil is the only kinda consolation at times when nothing logical or practical seems to make any sense to the reality.

    @ matangi: thnx. :)

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  8. Naah; beg to differ. No one is, and no one can.

    :)
    Peace.

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